Why Second Love Is The Real One

Second love teaches you how to love again after youve been broken. It teaches you that love still exists, that youre capable of loving again and loving harder. That you can still have faith in love no matter how much pain your first love caused you.

Second love gives you hope. That your fairy tale is still out there. That heartbreak is not the end of the world and that there are better things ahead. It shows you what happens when you move on, when you let go, when you try again and when you never lose hope.

Second love is braver. It means you know how to forgive, you know how to risk getting hurt again because its worth it. It meansthat youre prepared for the worst but youre hoping for the best.

Second love makes you believe in timing. Why things didnt work out the first time around, why you fell in love with the wrong person, why you had to get your heartbroken and why someone left you when they promised to love you. Its here to tell you that there is always a valid reason behind your pain and that loving someone doesnt always mean theyre right for you.

Second love makes sense. Its not based on childhood fantasies or lust or infatuation. Its not blind or reckless or toxic. Its not based on unrealistic expectations or sheer obsession. Second love comes after youve learned to listen to your gut, to watch for the red flags, to pick someone because they will add value to your life and when you’ve learned to make decisions out of maturity not out of

Second love shows you that you can be someones choice and shows you what it really means to be loved.

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